Plain and simple boys and girls, you fail, we fail. There is nothing real complicated about this site, it is to help people quit. If you fail at that, don’t expect people on this site to come powder your ass and say it’s ok. If you do powder their ass and say its ok, then shame on you, because you are not helping a single person. As a matter of fact, you are hurting every fucking person in your group, because now you are planting a seed in everyone’s mind that they can fail, come back here and apologize, and everything will be peaches and cream. FUCK THAT. You cave, you let down everyone. Do I want you to try again, yes, do I think you have a lot of redeeming to do to win back the trust of your brothers? Absolutely. We have experienced brothers dying on this site, we have experienced people losing loved ones in a tragic way, we have witnessed first hand people going through very hard times in their personal lives, and you know what? THEY DIDN’T CAVE!!!! They took the support we offered, allowed it to strengthen their quit, and persevered. once you gain that trust, don’t fuck it up. And to everyone else here, do not take this cave as a sign that it is going to happen to you. YOU are stronger than that.
Sorry to ramble, I just hate excuses, we all have them, it is just a matter of whether or not you choose to use them. I choose not to. period.